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Saturday, July 7, 2007

Scout Camp Preparation...


I try to be very supportive of Jim in is calling as Scout Master. I learned very early on there is a fine between being supportive and wanting to do it for him.
Let's face it our wonderful husbands do things totally different from us, and for me at times it can be very frustrating just watching him get something done, much less doing it with him, by his side. But I have learned when I am able to stand back and watch, and trust his guideance, as painful as it is, he always get's the job done and I have to admit it usually doesn't produce much different results as if I would have done it myself.
Next week he is taking his scouts on a week long scout camp. Now for the past months, I have also been planning a week long camp for the young women in our Stake at Laurels camp. Let me tell you, our planning techniques are sooooo different. I was thinking of all the activities, spiritual lessons and menu planning we have been working on for the girls ~ and I asked Jim one day last week about his list for his menu.... he says "we will go pick up the food next Saturday". There was no list, or menu... nothing.
So last night I remind him that the stores are much busier on Saturday than during the week, so he says okay, let's go shopping. In the car on the way to Costco, he says to me "do you have a pencil and paper to jot some things down for me?" Here we go making the list. I was soooo worried, and kept thinking about these young boys and their appetites, would Jim have enough food for them for a whole week without running out.
After 2 1/2 hours of shopping and going to all the different stores to get just the right items. We were driving home and he was planning in his head outloud how he was going to pack the coolers with each days meals so they wouldn't have to open the coolers all the time and they would stay cold until the last day. He was going over with Jacob in the back seat which merrit badges he was supposed to be teaching and what he wanted the boys to be working on. He called and lined up spritual lessons for the bishopric to give when they came up later in the week.
I had this overwhelming change of heart from frazzled, fearful, unbelieving, untrusting, to complete peace, trust, and a feeling these boys are going to have a great time!
I will have to learn to let go of some of my nature to plan and control everything to the inth degree and to trust Jim's instincs and allow him to recieve and use his own divine intervention.
It has been quit a process with Scout camp preparation, but this morning I woke up and feel really good about it.
So next week, Jacob and Jim are at scout camp and I am home alone. The following week, Jacob goes on a 50 mile hike with his Venture Scouts, and Jim and I are home alone. And the week after that, I am gone for a week at Laurels Camp, and Jim and Jacob are home alone (I hope they don't forget to water my flowers :)
I'm off to pick apricots at the church farm orchard. Happy Saturday!

Friday, July 6, 2007

Memory Smells...


I love memory smells... smells that trigger your memory about a time in your past, a place or a certain person that you haven't thought about in a long time.
I thought memory smells were only from childhood, but I have a new memory smell that reminds me of the year I moved Jacob and I back to Idaho to reunite with Jim and all the joy I was feeling during that 1st summer here.
I was coming home from my morning walk with Brenda this morning and it wasn't too hot yet, so I had the windows down and the smell of mint filled the car. All of a sudden I was thinking back on all those memories. It took me a minute to corrilate the smell to the memories.
As the story goes, when I first moved here, I didn't know my way around Caldwell at all, and without Mt. Rainier to see which way was South, I was always turned around. I couldn't even seem to make it to Walmart and back 2 miles without major anxiety.
One day during the month of July, I was trying to find my way home and I smelled the mint field... I remember how relived I felt that I wouldn't have to call Jim or his Mom for instructions back home, because when I could smell the mint field I could find my way from there.
They were too kind when I shared my experience to tell me that there were mint fields all over Treasure Valley! I guess I just got lucky the one I smelled was actually the one near the house. It was a good thing for me I eventually learned my way to Walmart before the mint was harvested.
I have lots of memory smells, honeysuckle reminds me of Miss Dot who took care of me when my Mom was working (she must of had honeysuckle growing at her house or something), fire smoke reminds me of the piles of laundry the boys bring home from a camping trip, and how I never mind that laundry, because it is sooooo good to see them, popcorn cooking makes me think of my sister (she loves popcorn), the rain reminds me of downtown Seattle and walking through Pike Place Market and the Waterfront in the rain.
It makes me wonder what kinds of smell memories I am creating for Jacob... I will have to bake cookies more often so he has good memory smells and not bad ones like dirty laundry or something. he he he

Thursday, July 5, 2007

4th of July




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We had a fabulous 4th of July. We attended the city parade for the 1st time since we moved here. Jim isn't big on crowds, so he usually avoids anything that would attract allot of people. But he agreed to go in the 100 degree heat and a good time was had by all.

Later, we went to some friends and grilled and did the whole fireworks thing. Our Friends have 8 children, the youngest is 4 months and Jim has fallen in love with Carson. He says he can't wait for Grandchildren now... I can wait a little while longer since Jacob is only 15, but eventually it would be fun!

I was very challenged in the picture taking because they were all moving around so quickly, none of them ever sat still for me to catch a "kodak moment" even though there were many. I will have to work on that.

Wednesday, July 4, 2007

In the Beginning...

Okay, I was so inspired by my sis-n-law, Patsys, Blog, I am going out on the limb and starting my own!

I love staying connected with Family and Friends across the miles, but I always feel
like I am pushing my pictures and proud moments on you, without your consent... this way, you can view them if you want, or not.

I love taking pictures, and being creative, and I want so badly to be a good journal writer, but can't ever seem to keep it going.... so I am hoping this will fill all my voids and give me a place to post my pictures, be creative (although I will never be the writer Patsy is... I love to read your writings sis) and a place to do my daily journal.

Wish me luck!


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